I don’t consider myself old, but I’m a bit experienced at life. Without dropping the number of years I’ve been alive, let’s just say wisdom comes with time. These are just some random things I think are useful to think about:

• Nobody is thinking of your flaws as much as you are.
• Take the photo- you’ll forget what all those smiles look like.
• Take the trip- the money will come back, but the time won’t.
• Wear the tank top, bikini, shorts- if someone is staring that’s their hobby NOT your problem. 
• Say what you mean the people who get you won’t need it sugar coated.
• Let people help you. Strength isn’t suffering in silence.
• If it feels off- it is. Your gut is wiser than your excuses.
• Don’t wait for perfect timing. It’s already too late.
• You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing peace.
• Love deeply but not blindly. You can have a soft heart but sharp boundaries.
• Forgive yourself for the years you played small. You didn’t know better but now you do.